Thursday, December 11, 2025
Santa Lucia: Bearing Light in the Darkest Days
Wednesday, October 22, 2025
Autumn Festivals and Celebrations
The observation of the rhythm of the year with celebration and festival life is universal among humans everywhere and of every age. Since the beginning of time, there is evidence that all peoples have celebrated the rhythm of life, returning to ritual and routine year after year, marking time, showing reverence and connecting with each other and the world around us through the cycle of the year.
Universal Quality
Many cultures share common roots in the origins of celebration. Foods used in celebration often reflect the local harvest, or what has been put up from the harvest. Spices are often associated with seasons and celebration. Think of warming allspice, nutmeg and cinnamon in the fall. Sometimes foods are related symbolically to the celebration, by color, shape or quality. Song and dance often accompany celebrations along with performances of varied sorts.
Why have Festivals and Celebrations?
Festival life is an important and meaningful element of Waldorf education and parenting communities. Celebrations help carry children, families, teachers and communities through the year with preparation and anticipation of what is to come, through song, story, movement, gathering and use of seasonal materials for practical and decorative use, and of course, specific foods.
Festivals and celebrations provide homeschooling families regular moments in the year to come together and celebrate. Sometimes festivals are celebrated through a playgroup and can be a means for fostering community for its members. Schools often open their doors to welcome the broader community for festival celebrations. Online bloggers offer pictures of celebrations and descriptions of how to pull it together.
How Many Festivals to Celebrate?
The number of days for possible celebration is limitless and may seem overwhelming. In trying to decide which festivals to take up consider the mood of the season, what is the essential element? What speaks to you? What are your family’s beliefs and traditions? What traditions would you like to create or deepen that resonate deep within for you? What is celebrated in your community? What Festivals feel like social ones to you? Which ones feel more private or family oriented? How can you bring them about?
Mood of Autumn
Let’s begin with the mood of the season. In autumn, we continue with the harvest that began in summer, preserving food for winter through canning, drying and freezing.
Autumn festivals begin as sustenance building, strength and courage making, and then move us through the dying and dropping of the leaves, with seeds dispersing. The veils between the worlds grows thin, we remember the ancestors, offering them sustenance and celebrating life and death with All Hallows Eve, All Saints and All Souls Days, the Day of the Dead.
We then move through the darkness of the year towards festivals of light, festivals of finding the light within and carrying it out into the world, in the cold dark night of winter, fanning our flames to create and sustain warmth for all the world.
One morning we awaken to find the world covered in crystals and note that Jack Frost has made his fist visit. We are in the season of Autumn.
September :: October :: November
Autumn Equinox :: varies with movement of the cosmos
Michaelmas ~ the Feast Day of St. Michael, the archangel :: Sept 29th
Feast Day of St. Francis ~ patron saint of animals :: Oct 4th
Canadian Thanksgiving :: the 2nd Monday in October
All Hallows Eve ~ Halloween :: Oct 31st
Día de los Muertos ~ Days of the Dead :: Oct 31st- Nov 2nd
All Saints Day :: Nov 1st
All Souls Day :: Nov 2nd
Martinmas :: Nov 11th ~ the feast day of St. Martin of Tours, often celebrated with lantern making and lantern walks, Weckmann recipes, photos, songs, story.
U.S. Thanksgiving :: the 4th Thursday of November
Advent :: begins on the 4th Sunday before Christmas. Just getting started with Advent?
Saint Nicholas :: Dec 6th
Santa Lucia Day :: Dec 13th
The Advent Spiral Garden :: usually takes place at the start of Advent
Some Favorite Resources for Autumn
All Year Round by Ann Druitt, Christine Frynes-Clinton and Marije Rowling
The Children’s Year by Stephanie Cooper, Christine Frynes-Clinton and Marje Rowling
Festivals, Family and Food by Diana Carey
Calendar of the Soul by Rudolf Steiner
In the Light of a Child by Michael Hedley Burton
The Harvest Craft Book by Thomas Berger
Celebrate the Rhythm of Life Autumn Curriculum: September, October, November
Tuesday, July 15, 2025
Planning Helps You Cultivate the Life You Want
Many of us are drawn to Waldorf ways because we are seeking more.
More warmth.
More beauty in our daily lives.
More time for what is meaningful.
We long for deeper connections, to the natural world and to each other.
Perhaps you’ve always wanted to organize a Michaelmas gathering or celebrate the four weeks of Advent…yet you feel like you need to catch up before you can begin.
You don't need to catch up.
You can begin right where you are.
Some years ago, I created a summer class for planning. because I needed it. I had sketched out my own year for homemaking and homeschooling, season by season and it helped me stay grounded.
It grew out of my Morning Garden days, where I learned again and again - that rhythm brings freedom… and that less really is more ~ especially when it’s shaped with clarity and intention.
Planning with the seasons allows you to cultivate the life you long to live, in small, steady steps.It may look like:
• A nature walk on a crisp morning
• A pretty table set with candlelight
• An ongoing handwork project that echoes the mood of the season
• A birthday celebration, a lantern walk
• Teaching Main Lessons in sync with the rhythm of the year
All of this is possible ~ with that first step - a plan.
They must be tended, slowly, surely and deliberately.
They are built up over time, with care.
Planning is a Gift to Yourself
A gift to live intentionally aligned with your values.
Give yourself the gift of time and presence by being organized before it happens!
You deserve that much and more!
Sunday, May 25, 2025
Favorite Picture Books for Spring
In the Waldorf kindergarten, there are no books, it's all spoken word, shared heart to heart, with storytelling and puppetry. At home, the act of snuggling up with our child to read a story can be a very sweet and comforting ritual. I have fond memories of my mom reading to me, as well as warm memories of reading to my own children. I bet you do too.
Stories, especially stories about daily life, are a cherished part of family life.
As we settle into vibrant, lush, greenness of Spring, taking a moment during the day to settle in with a warm cup of tea and a good story can be just the refreshment needed ~ a peaceful in-breath amid the busyness of the day.
It’s always hard to choose just a few favorites as there are so many wonderful books to choose from, and each family has its own special favorites. All of these books have beautiful illustrations. Here are a few of our family favorites to cosy up and read aloud in the Spring:
Dibble and Dabble by Dave and Julie Saunders
Dibble and Dabble mistake a cat's tail for a furry snake and set out to warn their friends. With playful language and suspense, we join their quest.
Miss Rumphius by Barbara Cooney
A timeless favorite, this book offers inspiration, life wisdom and guidance from grandfather to granddaughter in the simplest yet most profound and timeless way.
Pelle's New Suit by Else Beskow
The Story of the Root Children by Sibylle von Olfers
A beautiful picture, through story, of the rhythm of the year, with sweet illustrations and a dreamlike mood, it brings the rhythm of nature to life through the lens of Mother Nature's Root children. A sweet celebration for young children.
Spring by Gerda Muller
A simple, lovely board book, with rich, detailed illustrations, depicting the springtime activities of daily life for children, with baby animals, blossoms and play. It has no text.
Make way for Ducklings by Robert McCloskey
"Mrs. Mallard was sure that the pond in the Boston Public Gardens would be a perfect place for her and her eight ducklings to live. But when the busy streets of Boston become too risky for her and her family to navigate, the local police step in to make sure Mrs. Mallard and her ducklings—Jack, Kack, Lack, Mack, Nack, Ouack, Pack, and Quack—make it to their new home safely. A beautiful portrayal of one duck family’s devotion and perseverance, this picture book is a wonderful representation of how families overcome hard times together and a compassionate reminder to trust in the goodness of humanity." ~ from Barnes & Noble
What are your favorite books to read in the Springtime?
Leave your favorite titles in the comments below. 👇
Monday, December 23, 2024
What is Benign Neglect?
The word "benign" means harmless. "Benign neglect" is a style of parenting that involves keeping the child in one's consciousness without hovering. For example, let's say I'm washing the dishes and my toddler is nearby playing. I may not have my eyes on him, yet I know he is there playing. The space is safe and I trust my child to take risks. It's a sort of non attention, attention that involves an environment conductive to free play, trust in our children, and a smidgeon of intuition, trusting ourselves to know when to step in, and knowing when to hang back.
Trust in the child is the key word. Children who are supported to take risks, with exploring or climbing or trying something new learn from their efforts. They may not succeed the first time, yet in trying again and again, they eventually succeed. Respect for their efforts as part of the healthy growth process is a form of benign neglect.
When we see a tower of blocks waving and looking like its going to crash, we don't run in and rescue our child from the blocks falling down. We respect our child's play, and ability to handle the crash and then try again.
Children who have this opportunity to have a relationship with their body and their world that allows them explore develop confidence in their selves and in their capacities and grow up to be adults who are willing to take risks and try new things, and become very good at solving problems, because they are not afraid to try and fail.
It's a term that was once used commonly in Waldorf mothering circles to describe trusting our children when they play. It may seem like a contrast to today's hovering and constant surveillance of children.
As a child of the "Go out and play!" generation, I have so many fond memories of walking along stone walls, running in the woods, being away until it was time for lunch or dinner.
How about you, did you experience benign neglect in your play as a child?
Tuesday, November 12, 2024
Lantern Walks in November: a Lovely Tradition
Monday, September 9, 2024
Trust and Striving
Can you be compassionate with yourself?
It is far more of an effort than a full time job. It's more like three jobs: cook, housekeeper, nanny or driver, oh maybe four and teacher/guide too, and its compensation is not in such a well recognized and highly regarded form in the outer world. No paycheck, no promotions. No time off.
Often it is at that moment when everything is at what seems like the very worst, that our greatest strides are being made ~ of human growth - for we as parents are growing human beings and our children are helping us grow to be more fully human. It is in those dark moments that truths tend to emerge. With trust and striving we find our way back to the table to clean up one more time.
Monday, August 19, 2024
Getting Started with Waldorf at Home
While it's true that establishing this rhythm takes self discipline, persistence and patience, a strong home rhythm provides strength, freedom and spaciousness to daily life. A strong healthy rhythm helps carry the day. It takes some effort to get started, and it takes time to build up a good rhythm, once it takes hold, a good rhythm provides a momentum of its own, and frees us to be more present in the moment.
The saying is true, rhythm replaces strength!
Warmly,
For more 👇 on rhythmSaturday, August 17, 2024
One of Those Mothering Things
I am so grateful for that time. Rhythm has made it much easier to be present in the moment, rather than rushing to get things done with too little time. Rhythm has been so beneficial to me that elements of the routine I established years ago still buoy me along.
If you find that the days are flying by and you're constantly struggling to catch up, take heart. It is possible to develop a rhythm that meets your unique needs and creates a sense of spaciousness in your days.
Begin by creating a simple morning routine that nurtures you.
Monday, June 3, 2024
The Child is Born with a Sense of Wonder
Fifty-five years ago, Woman’s Home Companion published an article from by Rachel Carson called Help Your Child to Wonder:
“A child’s world is fresh and new and beautiful, full of wonder and excitement. It is our misfortune that for most of us that clear-eyed vision, that true instinct for what is beautiful and awe inspiring, is dimmed and even lost before we reach adulthood. If I had influence with the good fairy who is supposed to preside over the christening of all children, I should ask that her gift to each child in the world be a sense of wonder so indestructible that it would last throughout life, as an unfailing antidote against the boredom and dis-enchantments of later years, the sterile preoccupation with things that are artificial, the alienation from the sources of our strength.
If a child is to keep alive his inborn sense of wonder without any such gifts from the fairies, he needs the companionship of at least one adult who can share it, rediscovering with him the joy, excitement and mystery of the world we live in.”
Ways to Keep Alive a Sense of Wonder:
:: Spend time in nature, not with facts. but to experience nature, which will enliven the “sense” of wonder.
:: Take time to be present in the moment.
:: Look up at the sky.:: Value the daily and the ordinary, “What lovely clouds this morning.”
:: Find joy in the ordinary, in housekeeping and chores, sing or hum as you work.
:: Find the value and the goodness, in situations that do not work out as planned, ” I wonder if maybe we were meant to take a wrong turn because now we can see the rainbow.”
:: Let children get bored, boredom is the springboard for wonder and great play and projects.
:: Be the example and model wonder, “Gee, I wonder…” “Hmnn…” and wait when a child asks a question.
:: Remember that wonder is all around us and reveals itself to us when we are free of fear, safe and silent.
“Wisdom begins in wonder.” ~ Socrates
Trust that children know, children are capable of asking questions and finding the answers and trust that it is within you too.
How do you keep your sense of wonder alive?
Tuesday, May 28, 2024
The Wisdom of Wonder
A little child looks up at the sky and asks, “Mama, why is the sky blue" Mama responds “hmmn…. I wonder.”
There is a pause. The child gets quiet and turns inward. Silence. The child looks up with a knowing smile, “I know, the sky is a blanket for the earth, to tuck it in at night and keep it cozy,” to which to mother nods.
Another child asks his dad, “Why do birds sing?” The dad pauses and responds, “Gee, I wonder…” He waits. The child muses on it for a few moments and comes up with an answer, “I know, it’s their way of talking to each other.”
Children come to understanding through wonder. Curiosity, inquisition, engagement and enthusiasm flow out of wonder and in turn inspire more wonder and understanding. It is this spirit of inquiry that leads to wisdom, the ability to ask a question, hold the question and wait for the answer to come, which leads to more wondering, more enthusiasm and curiosity, a rich and juicy life, full of wonder, awe and wisdom.


