As mothers, we are keepers of the hearth, we set the mood and the tone for our household, so as it is within us, so without.
If we are confused and feeling turmoil within, it will spill into our day and our child's behavior, directly or indirectly.
When we are clear and feel confident, it comes across.
In doing our inner work, our striving, we can awaken to inner rhythm and bring some form and habits to our home lives.
It begins within. Within each one of us. And it is there. And it takes strengthening the will.
And that is the paradox of mothering, for we are supporting the development of our child(ren)'s will and in doing so we work on our own will forces to be able to do that.
Celebrations and holidays give us the chance to create rituals and traditions that come around once a year. They needn’t be big or elaborate to be meaningful.
As we approach the end of the Christmas season, this feels like a ripe time to reflect on the past six weeks.
Take some time this week to think about when it comes to the holidays and celebrations, what is it that really matters, for you, what is it that you want the holidays to mean for your child(ren)?
What went well, what do you want to do again next year? Is there something you want to build on? Are there things you want to let go of? Jot down what comes to mind.
In the Waldorf kindergarten teachers build up festivals over the years - many years! Within those years they have the opportunity to observe other teachers' ways. As homemakers we are finding our way one step at a time. Let's give ourselves a great big hug for all that we did accomplish this year to make the holidays merry and good, and let us carry into the future acceptance of our striving as good enough, and recognition that life is a process that is ongoing for us as well as our children.
Warmly,
